Your giving is measure by the heart thats behind it. If you give grudgely it better that you not give at all. Because what you give does not fulfill its purpose for the need. When you have a bad heart in giving. To give is to be of good cheer during adverse times. When there’s really no room for you to give. Charity is love and if you dont give out of Love then your not giving. Your perpetrating a fraud. Don’t give with an ulterior motive because that giving is in vain . We should give out of faith and out of pain. To me thats the true way of giving. Give your talents, time ,energy, money, ear to listen, give all your substance and I guarantee that you will become a better person your out look on life will change and people can benfits from it. Dont be forced to give let it be a way of life others will love you for it. And please dont give looking for a gift from those who you give to That would just mean that you give out a loan. Well just think about it.
To be of service and the art of serving as its techinque and should be studied before one becomes a server of any magintude of serving whether its at a resturant, friends or familyor in any type of public manner. You must first have a will to want to serve people. you should hone proper people skills. Have a great sense of people simply because there are all types some are nice, nice-nasty, mean, too excited, to passive or too aggressive…etc. So you must treat people according to how you want to be treated at all times and show no partality towards people and that way you end up treating people all the same.Never treat people the way they treat you you treat them better. No matter how they treat you.Remember you dont know who is watching and what effect you have on peole that could change them for the rest of thier lives. Just think about it.